Reality ? Truth ? have you wondered about these words. What if all you think is REAL is UNREAL and what you think is the truth is not et all truth ? yeah that's right! there is no absolute reality and absolute truth in this world (According to many authors and books i have read recently....).
That meaning to say what you think is not actually the right thing that is there or what you are seeing is only visible through your eyes and what you perceive of your life is your CREATION !
OOOOOOOOOhsh. Ponder on these for sometime and you feel how foolish you have been many a times . Many a times we see our world through some glasses, unless we remove those glasses we see the whole world with the same glasses and everything will look that way . If I am frustrated and am wearing that glass then everything the other person does will frustrate me until i change my glass. (once manasi made me realise this ...she said to maithili "maithili dont listen to mamma for sometime she is angry and she will say things which doesn't make any sense, so ignore her " ,)
This VIRTUAL REALITY is both reliving and disturbing to me. How ? I will tell you . Its reliving because any negative thoughts I should be able to ( which I am still not able to ,) step on or override ( eg : if i feel that, the other person is putting me down or he is making me upset or is hurting me intentionally , then these are my truths and my reality which I have created .they don't exist , maybe the person is not trying any of these and you have created this shield for yourself aftere some experiences ?) . We create our realities through our experiences naturally . So if i have had some bad experiences or encounters with a person or situation my Reality for that person will be based on my experience . Is that the truth about that person or situation ? I will look or interact with that person based on what judgement and Reality I have created about that person. Hence people ,we are Responsible for what we feel and what wee SEE !!!! So STOP saying someone hurt you or annoyed you . Thats your created problem .
In the morning I was so SAD about something and was wondering how Jayant could not feel the same , I realised how I was creating and seeing things so differently from him in the same situation. ( this is disturbing me ... why can't he feel the same I feel !!!! thats why we say husabands never understand :-( or they never know why their wifes are crying or upset and say you can never undersatnd a WOMAN) Unless you both are able to see each others realities which is hard unless verbalised then it is hard to understand each other as a matter of fact anybody.
So people describe, explain, express your reality for others to understand you and interact with you the way you want them to interact.
my theory and my rattlings ............will continue
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